Wellness 69
Grown-up answers, plainly given

Stress & Mood

Anxiety, low mood, burnout and evidence-based responses.

Blonde woman with glasses actively talking during an indoor counseling session.

Stress & Mood

The mental health of men, specifically

Presentation differs, help-seeking is lower, and the suicide statistics are the clearest evidence that something is not working.

Tom Halvorsen··3 min read

Stress & Mood

Grief, and what nobody tells you

The stages model was never meant to describe bereavement, and the reality is less orderly and more physical.

Grace Oyelaran··3 min read

Stress & Mood

What exercise does for the mind

The mental health evidence is stronger than the popular version and more specific about what and how much.

Tom Halvorsen··3 min read

Stress & Mood

Therapy, and how to find one that works

The type of therapy matters less than most people expect and the relationship matters more, which changes how to choose.

Grace Oyelaran··3 min read

Stress & Mood

Alcohol and mood

It works for a couple of hours and works against you for the next twenty, and the arithmetic is worth understanding.

Dr Ayesha Quraishi··3 min read

Stress & Mood

Loneliness as a health issue

The epidemiology is striking, the mechanism is plausible, and the interventions that work are not the obvious ones.

Grace Oyelaran··3 min read

Stress & Mood

Worry, and what to do with it

Worry feels like problem-solving and functions as avoidance, which is why more of it never resolves anything.

Tom Halvorsen··3 min read

Stress & Mood

Stress, and what it does to the body

The acute response is useful and the chronic version is not, and the physical symptoms it produces are genuinely physical.

Dr Ayesha Quraishi··3 min read

Stress & Mood

What actually helps low mood

Behaviour changes before feeling does, which is the opposite of how people expect recovery to work.

Tom Halvorsen··3 min read

Stress & Mood

Burnout is not the same as being tired

Burnout has a definition, a set of causes located in the workplace, and a set of responses that a holiday does not include.

Tom Halvorsen··3 min read

Stress & Mood

Anxiety, and what actually reduces it

Avoidance is what maintains anxiety, which is why the effective treatments all involve approaching rather than escaping.

Tom Halvorsen··3 min read