Stress & Mood
Grief, and what nobody tells you
The stages model was never meant to describe bereavement, and the reality is less orderly and more physical.
Anxiety, low mood, burnout and evidence-based responses.

Stress & Mood
Presentation differs, help-seeking is lower, and the suicide statistics are the clearest evidence that something is not working.
Stress & Mood
The stages model was never meant to describe bereavement, and the reality is less orderly and more physical.
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The mental health evidence is stronger than the popular version and more specific about what and how much.
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Going over the past repeatedly feels like understanding and functions as a depressive maintenance mechanism.
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The type of therapy matters less than most people expect and the relationship matters more, which changes how to choose.
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It works for a couple of hours and works against you for the next twenty, and the arithmetic is worth understanding.
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The epidemiology is striking, the mechanism is plausible, and the interventions that work are not the obvious ones.
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Worry feels like problem-solving and functions as avoidance, which is why more of it never resolves anything.
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The acute response is useful and the chronic version is not, and the physical symptoms it produces are genuinely physical.
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Behaviour changes before feeling does, which is the opposite of how people expect recovery to work.
Stress & Mood
Burnout has a definition, a set of causes located in the workplace, and a set of responses that a holiday does not include.
Stress & Mood
Avoidance is what maintains anxiety, which is why the effective treatments all involve approaching rather than escaping.