Wellness 69
Grown-up answers, plainly given

Sexual Health

Anatomy, function, contraception, testing and when to see someone.

A couple spending leisure time in a cozy bedroom setting, relaxing and enjoying each other's company.

Sexual Health

Sexual health for people in long relationships

The assumption that testing and prevention stop being relevant is common and is not always correct.

Dr Ayesha Quraishi··3 min read

Sexual Health

Sexual health for people who are not straight

Risks differ by practice rather than by identity, and a great deal of standard advice assumes a configuration that does not apply.

Dr Ayesha Quraishi··3 min read

Sexual Health

Condoms, and why they fail

Almost all failures are use failures, and the specific errors are well documented and easily corrected.

Dr Ayesha Quraishi··3 min read

Sexual Health

Talking to a clinician about sex

The appointment goes better when you know what they need to hear and what they are not thinking about you.

Dr Ayesha Quraishi··3 min read

Sexual Health

Herpes, in proportion

The virus is extremely common, the medical consequences are modest, and the distress is almost entirely social.

Dr Ayesha Quraishi··3 min read

Sexual Health

Recurrent thrush and bacterial vaginosis

They are different conditions treated differently, and self-diagnosis gets it wrong about half the time.

Dr Ayesha Quraishi··3 min read

Sexual Health

HIV in the era of undetectable

The science changed completely and public understanding has not caught up, which is now the main source of harm.

Dr Ayesha Quraishi··3 min read

Sexual Health

Contraception, compared honestly

Effectiveness in a trial and effectiveness in real life differ substantially, and the gap is where most decisions should be made.

Dr Ayesha Quraishi··3 min read